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writes:We are already one year in me and my boyfriend, but i'm fallen out of love to him....what should i do to recover my feelings? coz i'm afraid also to loss him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
Count your blessings you reached this point so quickly in your relationship. Think it over and try to figure out why you feel this way. Are you selfish? Does he have flaws you never liked? Are you too young to settle down? Has another guy attracted your eye? Once you know the reason(s) the decision will be easier.
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 unfortunately, there are no ways of controlling our emotions and if you don't feel the love and passion you once did, it's unfair on both of you to force it. people fall in and out of love and that's the way life goes, sometimes we try to prevent it and stay because the fear of being alone overcomes that of reality. if you stay now, it won't be happy and you have recognised that your feelings have changed so continuing this would be like lying to your boyfriend every time you say you loved him. i'm sorry, i just don't think it's healthy to stay in a loveless relationship and you can try to rekindle the love by doing more things as a couple, bowling, movies, eating out, going on a mini breaks, rem inding yourself of what attracted you to him in the first place but unless your heart feels the same as your head, it's not going to last.best of luck
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