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writes:im in my last year of school, im a guy, im 15, nearly 16i know a lot fo you will say its to early in my life to make a decisionbut i truely believe that i am bisexual.i "came out" some time last year and well... everyone hates mei have 2 good friends who truely understand mebut one takes the mick of me a lot, i know shes only jokingbut it hurts a bitand the other lives about 50 miles away and it takes 3 hours to get to herthey are both femalesit seriously gets me down.i get beaten up EVERY SINGLE DAY!basicly, i have, severe insomnia, bipolar, chronic depresion, anorexia and bulimia. i need some help coping or im going to end up dying. seriously. help?
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reader, minex +, writes (6 May 2008):
minex is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you kind reader, i would like you all to know that i do already have several forms of theropy, counsellors and a physciatrist i see every monday and wednesday. im going to college soon and im hoping my life will get better from there. also to the fellow who told me to accept my sexuality; i fully accept that i am bisexual and i do not belive theres anything wrong with me. i just want to stop getting beaten up! i dont parade around with a big "BEAT ME UP IM BI" badge, i dont really tell anyone, i dont draw attention to myself
anyway
thank you again, friends
Minex. x x x
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reader, :):):) +, writes (6 May 2008):
When I read your post I automatically thought of a friend of mine.
Like you she is also bipolar and has sufferend from eating disorders in the past. She also 'came out' as bisexual a couple of years ago.
She went through a very depressive time and dropped out of school. But eventually decided she needed help, she has since started taking the appropriate medication which as helped so much.
She also joined a support group which has given her more confidence. She now has a good job a boyfriend and is happy.
This can happen to you too, all that seperates you from happiness is getting help. Dont be afraid to talk to your doctor about your problems or to join a support group. Every little bit of support goes a long way.
Try making new friends if possible, maybe ones who have the same experiences as you, having great friends by your side is important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): I feel for you chap! Just let me say that you are soooo young and have soo much life to experince and it will get better then this! Highschool is immature and harsh. Things that helped me when I was in situations you speak of:I am a recovering addict of 10 years, also have been coping with eating disorders since I was in HS. I went to Narcotics anonymous- and organization for addicts. I made many friends there. Most addictions or eating disorders are due to personality disorder or come along with. So you'd be surrounded by people who don't judge you and understand you. I say find a self-help group and make friends.When my addiction was very bad- I went to rehab and this helped me cope wit my real issues. If you are really uffering- maybe you need to take a month to heal in a rehab.Also- try to focus on whats important to you. If you have an interest like music, art, reading- try and look for schools such as college and concentrate on making your life better- you can turn all this around if you try and think positive! If you heal from this things you can help others! Good luck and God bless!
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