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anonymous
writes:i met my cousin's best mate at my cousin's wedding,he asked me out for a coffee after that and we have been dating since then.my cousin came back from his honeymoon last week.should we tell him specifically?its not WRONG is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): No, it is not wrong to be dating your cousin's best friend as he is not blood related to you. As for telling your cousin you can do if it will make you both feel better but you don't have to if you don't want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2007): god no its not wrong as ppl meet ppl though friends and family all the time! u can tell ur friend if u want up 2 u!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Yes, you should tell your cousin and no, it's not wrong. I think your cousin will probably be very happy for you. Just make sure you tell your cousin that you won't put him in any awkward positions, he won't have to "take sides" or anything that might make him choose between his best friend and his family.
Definitely not wrong, though! Congratulations on finding someone special.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Ofcourse its not wrong! Lots of people meet someone special at a wedding.I bet your cousin will be pleased for you both, afterall hes all loved up at the moment himself. Hes not going to faint with the horror of it all...lol. Dont make too big a deal out of it, just tell your cousin the same way you would let everyone else know. Congratulations on your new relationship. I hope you are both very happy together.
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reader, ingotblue +, writes (7 April 2007):
 No its not wrong at all, if it were your cousin you were dating then i would have problems with it, I would say if it is worrying you then just take your cousin to one side and just say that you are dating your cousins mate and you feel that your cousin should know of the status quo.
your cousin has just got back from the honeymoon and should be loved up there for be really happy that you have found love too
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