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writes: Please help, i am a single guy and have got some serious issues with girls. I just find it meaningless to relate emotionally with girls mainly for the kind of control they seek and demands they put. So i can only think about having wild sex with them but not real love making. Can this create problems for me in long term? I am 23 right now. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): you have accepted that you have issues with girls,but you havent really said what?reading between the lines your issues come from a past relationship and this needs to be examined and accepted as this is making you bitter against women,the longer this goes on the harder it will be to break the cycle as it will be like having an addiction very hard to stop
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reader, ingotblue  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 if you want to at som etime settle down and have children then yes it will cause problems, if you want to be in and out of beds treating women as sex objects for the rest of your life then not a problem at all.
I think that you dont want to treat women as sex objects or you wouldnt be questioning yourself now. I would say get in to councilling, it seems to me it could be a deep seated probem you have and talking about why you feel as you do might help you to get to the bottom of this.
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