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I'm dating a married man and feel bad about it! Please help!

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Question - (15 November 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2006)
A female Tanzania - United Republic of, blackncute writes:

i'm a 27 year old lady,ove with a 53 years old married man, i love him, n he loves me too..but m worried about my future n i always feel bad when he goes back to see his wife. Should i continue dating him or i stop? pls help me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006):

i am in similar situation im 18,single,woman and my boss is 35, married,2 sons kids aged 1 and 4yrs old

ive known him 6months and we wer having affair 4 da last 4months

he wanted me to get abortion...i sed NO WAY...i tuk a test...im not pregnant..thank god!!

i dumped him few days ago

i hate him

its awkward at work

we dont speak or look at each other

he is not goin 2 leave his wife 4u

i found out the hard way

DUMP HIM

trust me!!!!!!!!!!!!!1i feel much better and free!!!!

goodluck xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2006):

When you truly love another with all your being; you have the desire to do what is right by them.

Your post in no way signifies to me that either of you truly love one another.

You both would be willing to be honest to yourselves and those around you whom you care about.

You should feel bad when he goes back to his wife as...him going back proves he doesn't love, honor, respect you or his wife. This is no noble man.

He does the same to his wife when he comes to you.

He is a liar and cheat. He is dishonest.

It is an honest heart that can love with all its might.

Be strong and love yourself.

Don't even fool yourself into thinking he would chose you over his wife. In his mind; he has already made the choice. He thinks of himself.

He is incapable of loving you or his wife in a way a woman DESERVES.

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A reader, I Dont Lie + , writes (15 November 2006):

I Dont Lie agony auntSTOP! Period.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (15 November 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou should stop and you know it. Hand him his walking papers, this isn't love. You are wasting precious time on a dead end. Start your life over and find your own true love. Do it today, you'll feel better I promise.

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