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I'm dating a guy for the first time, and I have no idea what to do or how to act!

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Question - (6 July 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 July 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I just got my first boyfriend and i dont know wat to say arond him also i dont know if i ask him to go to the movies or will he ask me please help me

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (7 July 2011):

TasteofIndia agony auntPersonally, I think if he already asked you to be his girlfriend, now you can both make plans when you feel like it! Maybe you can wait for him to ask for the first time, but really - why wait? You can always ask if he'd like to go to a movie with you, or out for ice cream ('tis the season, after all).

Relax, and have fun with your first relationship! Take it slow, remember to have lots of fun together and don't worry about making it perfect. Relationships are never perfect, but that's what makes them so fun. Enjoy, sweetness!

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2011):

aw when you meet someone you are bound to be a little nervous just relax and enjoy yourself ask him about himself family friends what he likes doing etc good luck

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A female reader, ilanah tromans United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2011):

ilanah tromans agony auntaww it should just come naturally, make sure you dont put all the work in he needs to try aswell, he might just lead the way for you, just hold his hand or give him a wee kiss, if he doesnt ask you to go to the movies then you can ask him but make sure your not putting all the effort in, just relax and it will be fine :-)!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (6 July 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthow did you get him to be your boyfriend?

you need to be yourself...

for me I'm old fashioned and I believe that the boy should ask the girl... but then the rule is that the person that asks is the person that pays....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2011):

Im sorry I made a few typos on my last answer that changed the concept of my answer : He will usually ask you, you NOT should be doing all the planning he should also be calling you and planning stuff with you, but you can also suggest stuff fromt ime to time or call him up... like you can say.. Hey we should go to the movies someday :)... or lets meet up! ...or lets go play something or w/e... but just be yourself :) have fun with him..you should not change or act differnet for him...only thing that should be different is tha ton dates you must make sure to dress the prettiest you cna and look good...but personality wise you should not change :) just be nice, cute and ahve fun with him :) talk or do something together! :)

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