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I'm curious about what people think about making noise during sex...

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Question - (18 March 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 31 March 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

So this might be a dumb question, but I have always wondered: How much noise do you make during sex? Do you moan, scream, ect? And if so, do you only do it when you are having an orgasm or the whole time?

Also, do guys find it attractive if a woman moans or makes noise during sex?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008):

My last girlfriend didnt make any noise until she cam.I always thought that she just wasnt very interested.She never wanted to have sex in the daytime or with the light on,and I coulnt figure out why?So the next time we had sex,I told her to be herself and do whatever she wants,I was going to cover my head with the pillow.I left the hall light on and left the door cracked so you could barely see.We started having sex and I was the only one making noise as usual.So I peeked under the pillow and stared at her she would check to see if I was looking then she would stick her tongue out and lick up and down real fast.And When I seen that I came in her instantly.After that i didnt care she wasnt making that much noise,she liked something else that turned her on okay with me.

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A female reader, lezlie Ireland +, writes (26 March 2008):

hiya

i think men like it when their partner makes some kinda noise..but to be honest its not about conforming to what they want but rather how you feel,if you like it,etc.

lets think of it this way..if you were in their pleasuring someone and they lay there like a sack of potatoes,you'd get the feeling they were counting down the minutes till it was over,wouldnt you?!its kinda a turn-off...but then again,you dont wanna be screaming the house down...well unless your a lucky girl!!

i say just let lose,relax,enjoy the experience..if you enjoy it it will show through the noises you make..and then when you orgasm it wont be your choice whether or not to moan louder,it just happens!

just remeber its not what it looks like in porn films...AT ALL..even some heavy breathing works..just dont be so aware of what your doing and let go of your inhibitions..

good luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

I make noise all the time when making love to my wife. As a matter of fact, she doesn't like to have sex when we visit with her parents because as she says, I sound like a beast when we are making love. I almost can't help it or stop. Kind of like a moaning or grunting wild beast, as she says.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008):

i think moaning (yes.. sounds very wierd.. kinda rough.. idk) anyways, is a major plus. my boyfriend absolutely loves me making noise.. the loader i get the more he likes it. so yes, noise is great. i used to be afraid to make noise, so i didnt, but i just cant hold it back now...

do what is natural to you. dont fake any noises, but dont hold back the ones you have..

hope that helped..

xMaRiAhX

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A male reader, Bushrod United States +, writes (18 March 2008):

I think it all depends on what makes you feel good. If making noise in bed makes you hotter then do it. If your man isn't making noise ask him about it. The only way to know is to communicate what you like and dislike. Me personally like to make a little noise, talking, moaning, or whatever.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

I was a little disappointed when I discovered that the girl I'm dating is quiet as a mouse. Strangely, she gets quieter the better she feels. In fact, reading the female responses to this question is making me jealous. Believe me: being vocal (authentically, of course) is a definite plus.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

My partner thinks I'm having a heart attack. Only at the vinegar stroke though, not the whole time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

It certainly turns me on.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

If its the right time and place, its HOT!!

I make some noise, dont usually scream or anything but moan (and ya thats a really weird word!) and talk dirty sometimes, whatever comes naturally lol!

And I love it when my bf makes noise too. Its really really a huge turn on for me, and I know he likes it when I make noise, tis reassuring that its good!

Just my thoughts on the subject!

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A female reader, Jmo United States +, writes (18 March 2008):

Jmo agony auntI personally don't make much noise in bed, but that's just me, I'd feel foolish. However I have slept with some guys who seem to take personal offense to it as though I wasn't satisfied and then they feel self-conscious. So I guess it's sort of a "to each his own" kind of thing. And sometimes, depending on where you're "doin' the deed" alot of noise is probably not a good idea:). Anyways, some guys are really turned on by it and some couldn't care less, sorry about the crappy answer but this is just one girl's perspective.

-Jmo

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2008):

Well personally, I'm not much of a screamer lol but during sex, I tend to make general moaning noises, but when I orgasm I moan harder. (Anyone else hate the word moan? Sounds strange saying it...). And yes, I think guys really do get turned on by their girls sex noises. Especially when she says dirty things - apparently men can get seriously aroused by hearing sexual things. :]

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