I'm crazy about a girl, but maybe she's not the best thing for me. Should I cut her out of my life?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Six months ago i met a girl that's 2 yrs older than me. We talked every day for 2 months on msn because she lives far away, and we became really close friends. A few months ago i told her i liked her and turns out she really liked me too, but she said she didnt see the point in it because she didn't want another long distance relationship. 3 months ago she began dating another girl that I am not too fond of, but I encouraged her to continue dating her because I knew liking each other didnt make either of us the other's property. However, now I am crazy about her. Next year I am graduating from high school and once in a while she mentions how much she wants me to attend her college so we can finally be close to each other, but it's not that simple. Having her in my life has made me ridiculously happy, but it has also begun affecting my decisions. I know that I won't end up at her college but it pains me to have to turn away from the option. I went to see her recently and now she wants me to go see her again. But if I would do it for her, why cant she do it for me? Should i keep her in my life? or is it better to leave her behind?

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