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*loudysunshine
writes:I was in a realtionship for five years from the age of 15. I ended it about five months ago, I felt we'd grown apart but also had feelings for a boy who was also my friend. Things didn't work out with that, and I felt so hurt and let down. I recently started dating again but got used. I have really bad anxiety and depression and just don't feel myself. I'm craving the life I had, but not to get back with my ex. I just don't feel particularly attracted to anyone atm and my trust is down. I keep worrying that I'm not normal even though I know it's probably because I was in a relationship so long I need to adjust to life on my own. I'm just so sad all the time, and hate not knowing my future. Does anyone else feel, or have felt like this? I would appreciate any feedback or thoughts :) Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009): I'm about to go thru a divorce that I didn't want. I have never felt this alone in my life. I can't change the past and my wife wants no future with me. Its very depressing but you have to look a head to the future positivly. I see myself better off alone now than I do being married to a person who doesen't want me. Get a grip on your feelings, see a counseler. Take care of your body, eat right and exercise, it does wonders. Be a little picky of the kind of people you may consider dating. You will find your knight in armor and you will be happy again when you take charge of your life. Its all up to you to get yourself out of this slump you found yourself in. Get up and get moving girl, tommorow is a new day. Good luck
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reader, crimson_kiss  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 If you want back the life you once had, you are going to have to work for it. Get out, find a therapist for the anxiety and depression and take this time to work on yourself. Adjusting to life on your own is tough, but with the right support system in place, you will fly higher than you ever imagined! Join social networks and enjoy what life has to offer. Make your world...YOURS!!!
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