A
male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been in a relationship with this lovely girl for 5 weeks now, i am not in love with her but like her a lot. However I do seem to be in love with my best friends sister, I have been out with her a lot as a group, ie my best friend her husband and the sister, we watch rugby together and have tea together, whenever I leave her I either give her a peck on cheek or kiss on lips, that all depends on her (in which direction her head approaches me) Now I don't know which direction to turn, I keep wishing my gf was the sister. I have been married for 8yrs and seperated last yr, the sister did not come on the scene until the wife left. Deep down I don't know if I am ready for a full blown relationship, however, I don't know how to finish it wiv my gf.Please helpps When I was looking at valantines cards I was thinking shall i buy one the sister? I want to buy one for the the sister, where as the gf i would buy one just for the sake of it.
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 In my opinion you need to back off a bit and let the tide take you where it will.
If you push too hard in the wrong direction you will end up with undesired results. If you back off and let nature take its course things should fall into place naturally and effortlessly as they were meant to. Doc.
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