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writes: Hi Tom, my x-boyfriend and I broke up 3 yrs ago. We lived together for 8 yrs, he moved in with a other woman instantly. One month after the break-up he came to my house, we had sex. He has came to my house every month for over 3 yrs. He says he just wants to have sex, but every time he comes over he wants to know everything about me, what I have been doing, if I have a boyfriend, how my family is, etc.....we even have the exact dreams about each other. I still think about him every minute and he thinks about me too. But he runs back to this other women within an hour and tells me not to tell anyone that we are having sex. He even told me tonight that his girl friend would be leaving town next month and he wants to come over for his B-day and spend the night. I am over 5o yrs old, I feel like a fool but I love this man with all my heart. I don't even have any more heart to give to another man. Is this what I have to look forward to for the rest of my life? ....Kathy....
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Hi Kathy,
You're every man's dream (maybe not every man's - LOL), because you put out with no strings attached. A freebie!!!And yes, you will have this to look forward to for the rest of your life, if you don't do anything to change it. You need to tell "Mr. Back Door Man", that the gig is up. It's time for you to regain your self-respect and find someone that loves you and respects you. You're not too old to be loved and respected.
Good luck!
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