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writes:pls help! 4 some reason i think i could be a lesbian.I dont have feelings for any girls at all and in fact i have a boyfriend who i love a lot. But i keep finding myself looking at other womens body parts.. like their breasts. Maybe i am just looking cos i am comparing myself to them but wateva it is it has to stop . pls would someone explain to me wats going on with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): I don't think that you are lesbian or bi, woman are beautiful and there's nothing wrong with looking at that.
I went through the same thing but realised that I am in fact bi, because I have had boyfiends who I've loved but I kissed a girl recently and it was amazing!
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Just checking out other girls doesn't make you a lesbian. I'm pretty straight, but it doesn't mean that sometimes I don't look at other women. Girls are foxy too! And breasts, well... sometimes it's hard not to look. And yeah, sometime you'll look to compare them to your own.
Even if you are bi, or a lesbian (it doesn't sound like you are from your post since you "don't have any feelings for girls" and love your boyfriend), it's not a bad thing! Not at all.
But, I doubt you are and it's normal and natural to look at other girls.
xxIndia
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reader, dollparts  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 no no it could just be hormones trust me I got through the same thing, just enjoy it and in time you will know
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