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writes:Well im a female, and im straight, and im very attracted to guys. When i was younger i had a incident where i made out with one of my best friends. But from then on i never looked at woman with an interest. However, i have a friend who i find to be very attractive and pretty. I for some reason just want to kiss her and hold her. Thing is i don't know what to think, i have a boyfriend,and i don't know if shes bi or not and shes also single. What do i do? I mean i talk to her all the time in that class, we agreed to hang out sometime and i just think it would be nice to get to know her more. But my main question is, am i bi? I mean yea Ive heard oh your probably just curious, but im not sure because i have had some dreams that involved me with a girl. But i'm not interested in other women, i just really like this one girl.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 February 2011):
 I wouldn't say that your bi yet and you may not be at all. You're just curious about this one girl and that is because you have many years ahead of you figuring out your sexuallity.
since you probably don't want to risk the friendship i would talk to her about it but start off talking about a general attraction to girls and you can judge how she reacts to this.
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reader, BeccaLeigh +, writes (7 February 2011):
My answer to this is no. If you were looking at a lot of girls this way, I would consider you bi, but don't sweat it, people go through phases like this. And even if it's not a phase, no big deal. You are who you are, so be proud of that.
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