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*ixie_95
writes:Hi im 16 and still a virgin. (going to get a bit graphic sorry) When i masturbate i normally only use 1 finger, however recently i tried to experiment and found that i could fit up to four fingers with little discomfort. I now feel absolutely disgusted with myself and am scared that when i do lose my virginity my partner will find me unpleasant and loose.I've browsed the internet and seen that many women can only fit 2-3 even after having sex and that most virgins have difficulty with 1-2. Obviously this means my hymen must be already broken.I don't know what to do, im scared that when i do get a boyfriend he will be disgusted with me and sex will not be pleasurable for him as i am not tight.I've read that kegel exercises might work-will they make me tighter?Sorry for awkward question, im just really upset now and don't know what to do.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (5 September 2011):
 it will be fine, men can enjoy sex even with women that have had a few babies bust their way out of there so don't you be worrying about four fingers! yes kegal exercises definitely work, they are easy to do and can be done any time, any where. not only will they keep your vagina toned for sex they will help you as you some avoid certain gynae problems as you get older, so well worth doing
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reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA  +, writes (5 September 2011):
Dont worry about it, your just growing up.A guy will love you for you.
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reader, bunnyblueeyes +, writes (4 September 2011):
 You need not worry too much about this. Your 'tightness' has little to do with your hymen.
As you become more turned on you'll become more lubricated and will be able to fit more in you. If you tried to do it straight away you'd find it uncomfortable and you probably wouldn't be able to.
I'm sure everything is as it should be. You can still do the pelvic floor exercises simply because they help in the future.
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