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writes:So my ex and I broke up back in November. She was under the impression that I was sleeping with someone else. She then broke up with me. I tried pretty much everything I could think of to get her back. I sent her emails, texts, flowers. Probably went a bit overboard.Anyways, back in January I sent her quick email saying I wish her all the best etc... No response.I still miss her like crazy, think about her everyday. Yesterday I figured I'd try sending her a text to see if she would respond, a simple "how are you?". No response.Since we have split up I've went on numerous dates, but none of them seem to compare with my ex. I'd like to call her, but I know that is probably a really bad idea. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm a little obsessed and if I will ever get over her.The worst part is I just started a new job one block from where she works a month ago. I figured we would have run into each other by now, but haven't.Any advice as to how I can move on would be greatly appreciated. It's clear she isn't coming back, and won't talk to me, unless we run into each other.Cheers.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 April 2011):
 No dont call her. You are right it is a bad idea. She has made it clear by ignoring you that she does not want you to contact her. You need to accept now that it is over and that she will never be in your life again. You just need to come to terms with that. Delete her number, email and social networking and if you have any reminders of her lying about get rid of them. If you dont have the heart to throw them out well them put them all in a box and put it in to storage.
Get out and about with friends. Enjoy an active social life. Try and meet new people and get to know them. Do things you enjoy doing. Done pine around after her all day, she is not worth it. She doesnt care about you and doesnt want you in her life so respect that. Dont waste your time anymore find someone who wants you back.
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