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writes: I've been dating this guy for quite a while and he's started saying that he loves me and he truly acts like it. The only prob is that I'm basically his first really serious relationship so I'm scared that he only feels that way because he likes that I care for him. I'm afraid that he'll eventually get curious and leave me for another girl eventhough we've been apart before and he's came back. Should I trust his judgement or be cautious? Reply to this Question
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reader, Amethyst  +, writes (28 December 2006):
 It's true there really isn't a definate answer for your question. But personally, if he hasn't given you a real reason to doubt yourself in placing trust in him, I think you should at least give him a shot. I'm moving in with my first relationship, and then soon after we're getting married. Sometimes, things just work. But I realize I'm lucky, and not many people get this same stroke of luck. While I never believe he would leave me for someone else, I simply push the thought to the back of my head instead of tossing it out completely. I think you should do the same.
Anyone's capable of changing, that's human nature... that's life. And life is jam-packed full of risks. Some of them you just gotta take in order to ever find happiness. So in my opinion, I think you should trust him unless he's given you a major reason not to. ^_^
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2006): There is no answer for this really, no one gets a guarantee when you are talking about romance, some people only fall in love once and that is it for them, others have to sow a few wild oats, so how can you ever be sure about what someone else is feeling except by the way they behave mostly and what they tell you secondly.
I say trust your instincts, fear is your friend, but go with your heart if it over rules your fear, you might be glad you did as each relationship teaches you something about yourself and about relationships and some people come into our lives for a reason just to show us to ourselves....good luck.
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