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writes:hi ive been with my partner for ten years but recently ive been in contact with an old boyfriend from 18 years ago i loved my old boyfriend then but we were too young,now were bk in touch my feelings have returned!i want to b with him what do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (15 October 2012):
 HI
I think you should leave the past were it was. in the past. The thought of all the old romance is just that, people change over the years and 18 is a long time to pass, you don't really know what his like now. he could be many things, are you willing to ruin what you have now for something that could last 5 minutes? please think very very hard before you jump the gun here. I know after being with someone for such a long time can sometimes lack romance , or the old lustful feelings but atleast it's true and his stood by you, he obviously loves you very much, don't give that up for a fumble.
Mandy x
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Think carefully, weigh up all your options. Consider your partner and any children you have. Think about what you would do if it didn't work out...prepare for a difficult time.
There is no easy answer and nobody but you knows how serious you are to change your life like this...there is also the other man to consider...Is he wanting to be with you or are you just enjoying the temporary thrill and excitement of being back in touch with a past love?
Life is strange, things do not always go the way we want andsometimes we have to do things tht we do not want to.
Take time and think...and then think again...that would be my advice.
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