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*rndz4life
writes:hi i have been in relationships like many other teenager girls.in past 7yrs i had been in relationships with 4 guys.i had been physical with all of them but never had sex with anybody.my problem is that i am afraid of commitments because even while being with my bf i get highly attracted to other guys physically.if i get married within few years i feel that i wont be able to remain committed to my husband for the same fact neither i want to cheat on him.is this normal to get attracted to so many men? or do i suffer from any problem.i just want to remain committed to 1 person only and avoid further problems but because of my feelings i just feel scared to be in a relationship plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, frndz4life +, writes (14 July 2012):
frndz4life is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u so much made me feel better!!!
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (14 July 2012):
 HiIts way better to be like this than 'settle' for the sake of it.You get to know what you want from a relationship,and what you don't.Its like shopping for shoes, you need one pair but see 6 other pairs you want too, so you try them all on to see how they 'fit'You'll meet your ideal man eventually and you won't notice any of the others because you,ll only have eyes for him.It'll take you by surprise too
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2012): You simply are not ready to settle down with one person yet and that's really okay. You are still young....have fun, be safe and do all the things you want to do and one day....it's just going to happen ..that one guy id going to sweep you off your feet and you aren't going to really notice those other guys anymore and you will only want to be with that one oerson. Don't try to force what you "think " you should be doing right now, it will only make you unhappy. When the time is right it will happen :-)
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