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Why does my partner become less affectionate and attentive after intimacy?

Q.   Hi I am in a relationship with a guy for 6 months. He loves me a lot and so do I. We plan to get married in few years. He usually texts me and calls me often to ask about my whereabouts as well as 'miss u lot' and 'luv u' text. It is like he cant ...

A.   3 November 2012: thanku for suggestions!! yes i mean makeout!!... (read in full...)

I don't like his behaviour with his close female friends, is this normal or is he in the wrong?

Q.   hi i am in a relationship with a guy for past 6 months. he is very sweet and understanding and loves me a lot. the problem is the way he talks with his 2 3 female friends (one of them is his ex but now friends with her).they call each other with ...

A.   5 October 2012: @malvern yes they are his friends for a long tym n they also know about me but they flirt even more than he does with them. i trust my bf because he tells me when he goes out to meet them but i do feel insecure evrytime now..... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is losing interest and I'm worried our relationship is falling apart....

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for one and a half years, and everything's always been really good between us, but lately I feel like he's not puttin in any effort. Since I met him we literally spoke everyday, where as lately We ...

A.   10 September 2012: hi i completely agree with tisha- i have been through this and i know its damn miserable feeling even though i understand that he was way too busy with his work loads. what i did was i got myself involved in other things that i enjoy doing hanging ... (read in full...)

Can cheating be justified?

Q.   if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...

A.   29 July 2012: thanka a lot for ur suggestion. i am trying to work it out. Dorothy Dix, thanks a lot for taking time out for giving tips. its been 3 yrs that we are together and yeah!!!!he does love me coz he doesnt wanna lose me at any cost thats wat he said... (read in full...)

Can cheating be justified?

Q.   if someones love interest doesnt give enough time,love, emotional and mental support the care and need and also doesnt take part in sorting such differences by mutual talk then does it give the other partner to cheat on him/her, is it justified ...

A.   28 July 2012: but there is a communication shut down between us my partner is not ready to do a mutual talk,neither justifying acts, telling the problems bothering nor ready to part ways claming to love me but also not ready to give time ,love and care. how am i... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to so many guys. I'm afraid I'll cheat if in a relationship

Q.   hi i have been in relationships like many other teenager girls.in past 7yrs i had been in relationships with 4 guys. i had been physical with all of them but never had sex with anybody.my problem is that i am afraid of commitments because even whi...

A.   14 July 2012: thank u so much made me feel better!!!... (read in full...)

G/f gave permission to cheat since she wants to wait till after marriage to have sex

Q.   I pretty much just met the woman of my dreams... except for one thing. She doesn't want to have sex until marriage. She tells me that she is a virgin and wants to stay that way until she is married. The strange thing is, she has told me that I could ...

A.   31 August 2011: If u really love her then you must respect her decisions!! she is right in a way too. you need to make out what are your priorities are love or sexc and make decisions accordingly.... (read in full...)

Friend's prank went wrong

Q.   hi this can be a bit long but i seriously need help i had a breakup with my bf 7mnths ago...it was very painful for my bf who couldnt move on.. he started to blackmail me, threatening me ,send msgs, abuse me n my parents, give blankcalls at my...

A.   7 July 2011: thanks my friends for ur kind advise!!!! that really helped me!!!!... (read in full...)

I fell out with my ex and now I'm losing our mutual friends!

Q.   hi sory this can be a bit long but i need ur help !! i was in relationship with a guy for 3 yrs later i broke up with him because things werent working out for me, rather i was not ready to commit.i had casual relations every time but this turned ...

A.   20 March 2011: THANKS A LOT!... (read in full...)

Whose fault is it? What do I do?

Q.   hi i m 21 yrs of age, i had always been somewhat a reserved kind of person.to be frank till today i havent made much friends as in whom i would call true friends. i had a best friend when i was in high school but now doesnt even talk to me pretends...

A.   15 March 2011: thnx a lot for ur advise that is really appreciated!!!... (read in full...)

I cant have him and yet I cant seem to walk away...

Q.   Hi - I have been married for 4 years known my husband for 10. We have never had an easy relationship. About 8 years ago I started chatting to an old uni friend we had always fancied eachother but had partners at the time so never took it further. We ...

A.   10 March 2011: hii, i think that you should restrict urself from being in any kind of contact with him. whatever you both had feelings it was ur call to get away so that ur parents dont get hurt. so same way this time u have to take care that ur husband doesnt get ... (read in full...)

The guilt is killing me, how do I tell him to move on?

Q.   hi i am 21 yrs old i had been in a relationship with abc when i was 14 that relation lasted for 5 yrs.we got physically intimate but never had sex. but at the end i broke up with him because i was not ready to commit, we continued our friendsh...

A.   10 March 2011: thanks a lot for ur kind help. i would try to follow it... (read in full...)

Boyfriend broke up saying he is bored of me

Q.   Hello All, Ok, so today my boyfriend told me that he doesn't love me anymore and that he is bored of me... while 2 days prior he said i love you,and just the night before was cuddling me in bed.. He was planning on moving in in 2 weeks, and all his ...

A.   9 February 2011: hii i know how u might be feeling .. but the answer is yes!! you should move on. its no use crying for a guy whose love changes or doesnot care about you. i dont think addiction to porn is the reason, it doesnt decide ur relation. so its obvious ... (read in full...)

The guilt of us breaking up is really bothering me

Q.   hi i feel i am surrounded by many problems my ex and i hav had break up 4 months ago but still he hasnt been able to move on.. he has ended up hurting himself physically, sometimes threathening me and more important losing his focus out off studies. ...

A.   9 February 2011: thanks a lot for advices i would try to follow them lets see if that works coz i really need to get out of it... (read in full...)

How can I be happy with me?

Q.   So here's my story. It's been 4.5 months since breakup and i realize that I still miss her. I don't love her as much as i did when she ended things with me but i still miss her tremendously. She's in my thoughts everyday. My ex girlfriend's healing ...

A.   31 January 2011: hi sry to hear about what happened with you .but such things do occur nowadays .i know its really hard to forget. i would suggest just stop thinking about her and keep yourself very busy in things, u said u have many friends so just hang out with ... (read in full...)

He said he doesn't love me anymore -- does he mean it?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We have had our ups and downs just like anyone else. We have broken up several times but seem to get back together. The other day we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt love me ...

A.   29 January 2011: hii.. i think this is a problem that most of relationships do face. may be he told all these things in frustation but such frustations do get over in a while..but if he is now constantly avoiding u for many days then its time for u guys to have a m... (read in full...)

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