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writes: Dear cupidI have been goin out with a guy for about three months and we get on well but I know he is not the one for me even though he is head over heels in love with me.I get on well with all his friends and consider them to be good friends of mine too but recently over the last couple of weeks I have had very strong feelings for one of his good friends, I cant stop thinking about him he is so funny he always makes me laugh and i think we could be really good together. I have told him and he has feelings for me but will not act on them because it would destroy my boyfriend and all of their friendships. I understand but I cant help the way I feel, we are all due to go away together in two weeks. can you give me any advice on this situation please. Reply to this Question
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reader, zosey +, writes (24 August 2006):
 hey, love is always the most difficult thing in life as u cnt control it, ur boyfriend should no that u dont want to be with him any longer and i agree with "baby girl" that u should maby let thwm both go, u will end up hurting some1 without meanin to, ur boyfrineds friend dosnt want to hurt his friend and i think maby u should sit down with ur boyfriend and say ur loosing interest in ur relationship and ur falling out of love with him, this will hurt him less then saying u want to be with his friend, then u can still meet up as frineds and maby if u and his friend r still wanting to be woth eachother in time maby u can wehen the dust has setled and ur boyfriend is over u, remember he will be leanin on his friends if u decide to brake up so try not to but his friend in a difficult situation by tellling him u can be with him after wards maby wait awhile before getting together, good luck twoth ur situation, take care, zoe
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