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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I fancy one of the boys in my year and it seems that he may fancy me too. But obviously, there's a problem.Everyone teases him that he fancies one of my friends. They're very close. She has a boyfriend and claims that he's like a brother. He's also good friends with her bf. He doesn't seem jealous but he comes across as if he's in love with her. A lot of other boys fancy her too and she's not interested at all, but she strings them along without realizing.As I said, I fancy this guy. My friend has been acting funny recently being quite selfish, jealous and expecting everyone to put her first. I've started to find myself feeling bitter towards her and him as well. I'm angry with myself for liking him when he seems more interested in my friend. And I feel bad for feeling this way towards them when they haven't really done anything wrong. I'm jealous of her, but I'm annoyed with the way she has to be everyone's No 1 too. Our relationship has been a bit strained recently when we used to be very close.I don't know what I'm looking for really. I'd just like your responses. I feel stupid. So what's your advice?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 March 2010):
You're not stupid for fancying someone. I'd suggest that your friend does know that she strings everyone along though. She seems like a bit of a drama queen. If you think he fancies her, then you need to steer clear. You don't want to be second best. Meanwhile, spend time on yourself. Enjoy your own life and meet new people, new friends. Start a new hobby. There will be a guy out there for you. It's just a matter of finding him.
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