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writes:Hi, aunts and uncles I need some advice. I'm approaching 30 and I feel like an overgrown teen again! I have fallen for someone and it's all gone wrong. I'm at Uni gone back for a 4 month course! It's a very stressful course working full time plus essays reflection etc. The course is a year and I've moved 250 miles away to do it! But agreed with the Uni I'd do 8 months of it back where I am from. So here i am miles away and I've made new friends etc, when I kept noticing a rather attractive man on my course looking at me. Staring over all the time and I was very interested as single 30 soon and noone I've seen I like where I am. So I'm keen. So I researched who he was and we got talking and he invited 'me for coffee I said maybe but I'm going out Friday, why don't you come! He said maybe but got football etc on next day! Then i found out his age 21!!!! 9 years younger then me this boy is so freaked out then thought no just have him for sex! So by Sunday night we spoke in phone and he sounded immature so told him! Not happy! He went mad! I asked himIf my age is problem he said no! Not at all! Then about 'me going back in few months he said no were make it work! I freaked as thought too young! Then Monday we saw each other and was awkward but after we left we agreed for him to stay at mine next night as he lives hour away! Wed get movie and chill out and he was all happy and put xxx at message etc! Then Monday I freaked out said think best just sex! As originally all i wanted as thought too young! Then he said not slagging around done that and I'm not worth effort anymore were do lunch tomo if click I might stay, we also spoke in phone was lovely and was different mature! Tuesday came had 10 minute lunch whereby he told 'me his been fucked over by ex and bitter and more thinkAbout it more I'm not for him! Then that's it! I said i take back what i say I like you! But he said in his head now! We were also meant to meet this Saturday but when asked him before over text he said gonna have to cancel as busy! So I said not interested he said busy! I don't know! I keep chasing him and getting no response. I hate fact I've become like a teenager chasing this 21 year old kid who know nows I really want him! What do I do! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2010): It would help if you didn't refer to anyone past 18 as a 'kid'.
They are legal adults and should be referred to that way. To consider them kids is an insult.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): If u like him nd he like u 9 year difference is nothing, don't let him go if its good with him around!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): Drop him and let him grow up for a while otherwise you'll both be messing with your studies. Not worth the pain and mess. FOCUS LADY. Got your thrill from the crush now get back to school!
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