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writes:I fell in love with my husband with just one look nearly 6 years ago. Then I met his good friend and fell in 'lust'. Immediately. This was probably 4 or 5 years ago. We recently started chatting online, and the flirting has gotten pretty intense. I love my husband to death and have no desire to hurt him, but I really want this guy (and he wants me, too.) I know it's wrong, and I've tried to stay away from him, but he's like a drug! I'm addicted! What can I do to make sure I don't give in to the temptation of taking this to the physical level? I don't want to ruin my marraige or hurt my husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): If you truly dont want to ruin your marriage and hurt, if not devastate your husband, then switch the computer off now. Dont go any further with this and walk away before it is too late. We are not going to say go for it, because from reading so many of the letters on here, and past experience we know what the outcome will be. Please just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): I think you should cut all contact with this other guy. You will not only hurt your husband if you cheat on him, you will also hurt yourself because he will leave you, the lust will go with the other guy and he wont stick around either. You will be alone and then you will realise that your actions have destroyed your marraige. It will never be the same again.
I know you say you really love your husband so why not try to get the lust back with him...try to spice things up in the bedroom, buy sexy underwear, do it in unusual places or go away for a sexy weekend. Try to bring the passion back!!!
If you spice things up with your husband and improve ye're relationship overall it will help you forget the desires your having for his friend.
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 I suggest you find the strength to back off from your on-line flirting, chatting and begin to stop having so much contact with his friend. This thing can only backfire and leave you devastated in the long run.
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reader, AJ jess ^..^  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 if you love your husband you will not cheat on him especially with his friend. its the worst thing to do i know it may be hard but lust is a short term thing and i think you just have to get over it x x
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