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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Im really scared aout my sister..shes 16 and has recently had to go through having an abortion at 4 months..she didnt tell anyone apart from me..and i didnt want to annoy her so i didnt tell anyoneHer and her boyfriend went to have the abortion, but hes a crack head..and does drugs every day of his life. Since then hes split up with her after 3 years, shes angry and upset..obviously.But since then shes been with 3 other boys..mostly his friends..i dont know what to say to her :SPlease help..im scared about her.thankyouxxxx
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Hi
Honestly I think you sister put you in a very difficult position yes she needed someone to talk and be glad she thought of you. Now what you can do is to be there for her as a brother continue to give her the support she needs, another thing you can also advise her to see a professional/Parent abortion can be both emotional draining and traumitc especially that her boyfriend is not supportive. Just talk to her and make it clear that u are judging her or insinuating that she is out of control but you are telling her out of concern, she might not take it very well at first but later she will understand.
The reason you need to find her this help is that you are also very young to just look at her while she falls apart it might destroy you as well because this is just hectic to live with.
Hope you find help soon enough
J
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