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He doesn't satisfy me - any hints?

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Question - (16 October 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I have been married for 23yrs Usually he takes time to come. But in the last few years he no longer makes the effort after making love he masturbates to come. unsatisfied wife. any hint

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

Mandy 7 has right. Men are not much different from women. You need to make him really horney. Make him want you. You can use any technique. The core of it is anticipation. Remember that word. Make him horney before he goes somwhere so he has time to think of sex when alone!!! Amke him horney and delay sex for later. You need to get in control of yourself first an understand that YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. he just needs to think of it more and warm up in general. Treat the problem like that and trust it's possible. Support him and don't mock or offend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007):

Hi Hun,

You need to put the passion back, im not saying its you its something that happens over time, Really give him something to get all hot and bothered about love dress up or down, oil, incense, candles, Become the sexual preditor hunny find that animal part of you and go for it give him something he wont forget something that will keep him thinking about sweetheart for a long time untill you pounce again TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2007):

Andy00 agony auntAs suggested before; I would talk to him. Ask him why there has been an occuring change in your sex life. Hopefully he should be able to answer anything you want to know.

Discussing things with him holds the key to the possibility of making your intimacy great again.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

find other ways maybe you should start pleasing yourself

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

eh yeah, seems kinda obvious but why dont you talk to your husband?

everyone knows passion fades but it can easily be refound, the old stuff ant working try new stuff

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