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writes: ok so im 28 and a lesbian and ive been sleeping with my uncles ex wife i had a thing for her when i was younger then we ended up sleeping together and have been for 5 months she has 4 kids and they kinda know and hate me there my cousins i she tells me shes inlove with me all the time but also breaks up with me on a weekly basis i have a drug problem and only ever slept with her when i was high i am not attracted to her but i cant stop talking to her or seeing her i dont know whats going on any ideas
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): You must be getting something out of it else you wouldn't keep seeing her .. I suspect if you can beat the drugs you won't need her. Please get help for that - it's hard but you can do it, many people have and gone on to live better lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2006): Ok...this is a difficult situation you have put yourself into. I will try and help you as best as I can.First of all it was not really a good idea to sleep with your uncle's ex-wife. When family comes into it you just shouldn't go there. So you can't really blame their children for not liking the situation.Does your uncle or other family members know about this? I don't think this woman is really in love with you otherwise she wouldn't keep breaking up with you so often.Do you love her though?probably not because you say you are not attracted to her. Then why are you so fond of her? I think you may be confused. Ask yourself if you really want to be with her and whatever the answer is talk to her about it (preferably when you're sober), and she can tell you where your relationship goes from there.Don't go back to her if she breaks things off with you again. Either you are together or you're not. It's not good for you to be in and out of the relationship. I would say to end things with her once and for all and find someone else who isn't family realated. But if you really love this woman and if you are happy together then go for it..(That's just my take on things you don't have to agree). Good luck and I hope I have helped you.
Oh and sorry I can't really help you with your drug problem it's up to you to help yourself.
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