A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:please can someone help me im due to get married in sept of this year and my lovely fiancee, has just told me that the spark has gone and that its my fault for being childish, ie tantrums, and i dont seem to act my age, dont get me wrong i am trying but its hard to leave behind my laddish ways after 33 years, she says she still cares for me but the spark has gone and she doesnt know whether its gonna come back, the thing is we are supposed to be moving in together next week but i aint sure whether to give up my flat just in case it all goes sour
View related questions:
fiance, immature, spark Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Jenna +, writes (3 February 2007):
 As you can see what's going on you're already halfway there to putting it right so, if I was you, I'd try some cognitive behaviour therapy - its relatively fast-acting and deals with the here-and-now rather than the whys-and-wherefores.
Good Luck
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2007): Well, it is great that you are willing to take responsibility for your immature behavior and you contribution for the problems in your relationship.
I think you might want to seek some counseling, and if your fiance will go with you all the better....it seems that you are not on the same page, and you want to postpone marriage and moving in together until you can resolve these issues.
...............................
|
