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Should I tell his gf how manipulative and mean he is??

Q.   Is it wrong to let the girl that is dating my ex know that he started dating her before we broke up? He made it seem like we were allready broken up so he could be with her. In reality we were in a long distance realationship and I finally broke up ...

A.   6 February 2007: I agree 100% with Dr Pete, it is no longer your concern and interfering won't do you any favours. Best of luck for the future. Jenna x... (read in full...)

I'm 33 but my fiancee is having 2nd thoughts about me, due to my temper tantrums and immature behaviours! Advice, please?

Q.   please can someone help me im due to get married in sept of this year and my lovely fiancee, has just told me that the spark has gone and that its my fault for being childish, ie tantrums, and i dont seem to act my age, dont get me wrong i am trying ...

A.   3 February 2007: As you can see what's going on you're already halfway there to putting it right so, if I was you, I'd try some cognitive behaviour therapy - its relatively fast-acting and deals with the here-and-now rather than the whys-and-wherefores. Good ... (read in full...)

My husband had an affair and watches porn.

Q.   My husband has been lying to me, watching porn alone and has had a affair. what is wrong? ...

A.   30 November 2005: See if you can watch the porn with him - he won't be watching it for long...if your sex life improves then you may have a better sense of closeness within which to discuss the more practical issues that are arising Best of luck, Jenna ... (read in full...)

She thinks her vagina is icky-so how do I convince my girl, to let me perform oral sex on her?

Q.   i want to please my girlfriend, but she thinks that i wouldn't like going down on her because she thinks that its slimy and therefore icky... is there any way i can convince her that i would enjoy it and that she would too?...

A.   30 November 2005: If she's comfortable with it, then gently kiss her around the top oher legss and her lower stomach and then use your fingers and lick them. With the right DVD maybe you could introduce her to different sexual practices - this was one way I improved ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if he is committed to me?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but recently I haven't been happy with the relationship. And recently he cancelled on me to go climbing with a girl who's just a 'good friend' of his. I amn't worried he'll actually cheat, ...

A.   29 November 2005: I would suggest expressing your concerns directly to him as you've expressed them here. There is a risk that he will indicate that he doesn't want to continue with the relationship, alternatively he may find your concern reassuring and want to ... (read in full...)

Why are some men not afraid to have sex during a women's menstrual cycle?

Q.   This is a weird question, but I am very curious about it. Why is is that some men are not afraid to have sex during the girlfriends cycle, while some guys won't get near you? I know it is a very personnel matter. I just don't understand it. ...

A.   29 November 2005: Have sex in the shower... (read in full...)

Oh no... I got drunk and had sex with my brother!

Q.   I am twenty nine years old. Last summer my ex husband had the kids away on holidays and I went to stay with my brother for a couple of days. His wife and kids were away. We went to a party and we both drank a lot, when we came home we drank a bottle ...

A.   29 November 2005: My advice is no this isn't something you can share except with someone you don't know eg a counsellor - it wouldn't be fair on anyone close to you to have to hold onto this. Hey it wasn't a wise move but whats done is done so accept you made a ... (read in full...)

How do I get my husband to be more responsible?

Q.   My husband and I have been together 6 1/2 years. I have always been the aggressor and he likes it that way. I wear the pants in the family and he lays back and takes it. I manage the money, the bills, the decisions. I bought our car, I found our ...

A.   28 November 2005: Tell him how you feel and that you regret having taken it all on yourself and then ask him which tasks he thinks he could take over - but don't expect too much. You made a commitment to a man that you loved and it wasn't part of the deal that he ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

Q.   hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

A.   28 November 2005: Try a night of full-on romance, dinner somewhere special, dress well, flowers, champagne everything, whatever she likes she gets including lots of oral sex from you.... (read in full...)

He doesn't want to know me now...what do I do?

Q.   i need help. i have been with my boyfriend for going on two years. we own our on buisness.(bar) we have a four month old daughter together.well since i have had her, he dont want to spend time at home with us he wants to be at the bar. i am very ...

A.   28 November 2005: This can be a difficult time for a new father and I wonder if he has been feeling excluded during what has probably been a very special time for you and your daughter? I would suggest that you find a good time to talk to each other about the way you ... (read in full...)

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