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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm a 15 year old girl and a couple months ago i met an 18 year old guy (suspected to be 22) online. I've met him in person, talk to him all the time, we meet to chat online at specific times (because he lives very far away from me), i do admit i have inimate feelings for him and he claims to do so as well. I wanted to know is this right? Am i being played?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): ok i suggest you ignore all these people who think you're too young. they know nothing. If you are sure you love him, go for him and noone else. If you are not sure you love him spend more time with him and find out for yourself. also, about his real age, to me it wouldnt matter, but if it matters to you, ask him. he might be too shy or embarrased or w.e to say he's actually older, but make sure he knows that it doesnt matter to you, and if it does matter to you then let him know that if he's not who he says he is that its not going to work out. this is your decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): Do yourself a favor. At your age you should be not even be considering having sex or dating someone you met online. Especially if you can't even confirm his age, let alone the fact that he lives far away.So, do what healthy 15 year olds do and go to basketball and football games. Cheer on your teams, hang out with friends, eat ice cream, go bowling, and enjoy the simple pleasures of being young. Don't rush into things that even grown adults have problems dealing with.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): hey hunnie. this guys not right for you. you dont even know how old he is? he will meet you, fuck you, and chuck you, sorry for been so blunt but he will, stop this relationship before it starts. you need to find someone a little nearer home and someone honest and trustworthy. hope this helped xxx
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reader, mummymeme  +, writes (2 May 2007):
Hi 'A female'
Being a young woman you are showing signs of starting to use the gift of womanly instinct bestowed on us, now is the time to trust it, being torn by what you feel and think will obviously confuse you, it does most of us! that wont change as you grow older! unfortunatly wisdom doesnt start until you have been burnt in a relationship, i can offer you some advise and you can choose to take it or not. i wont patronise you by mentioning your age or inexperience, this you are intelligent enough to already know - you also know deep down what to do, in my experience if you suspect he has lied about his age then he will be older still than your suspiction and will lie about other things too. Meeting with him may have been a bad move, this situation signals many red flags that you and only you can learn by. He is basically a man with all the manly feelings that go with it, he will probably be feeling flattered by your attention because of your age and inexperience - men love to feel loved and worshiped, unfortunatly until they reach their 20s to 30s most dont start to respect the women in their lives. You can decide to take this further and both live happily ever after, but please keep in mind before you make any decision that he may be like most men - just playing you until he gets what he wants from you and then run a mile when you need him. do you want to take the risk of giving the most precious part of yourself, something you will never forget giving - to someone you are not sure loves you enough not to lie to you?
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