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Is the size of my penis okay to satisfy a girl?

Q.   my penis size is about 4.5 inches and i masterbate a lot, i'm afraid of sex. Is this size ok to satisfy a girl?...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi, thank you for taking the courage to ask this question; ive found that its not the size its what you do with it! the forplay can be so exciting that just the slightest touch of the penis will set her off! keep her excited and then move on to very ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with him?

Q.   hi im julia im 14 from uk. i have not been sexually active in a term i can relate to (if that makes sense) when i was 13 i was abused and raped and left naked in my own bedroom while my parents had nipped over the road to see a friend, i said i w...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi, Well you have had alot of answers to your question; i wont go into my experiences as you have enough to get on with! ive found when you find your mind flicking over to the nasty memories when you are with your boyfriend, remind yourself you are ... (read in full...)

How can I get him to realise how much I love him and want him, am I trying too hard ?

Q.   What do i need to do to prove it? My boyfriend an I are in a split up right now, an it has been over a week so far, an all i want to do is prove to him that i want him an i love him. He told me when we broke up that it was not me an that it wa...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi - Well you are in a stew over this man arnt you! well from the start ive got to say the obvious and you know it deep down, you are an intelligent woman; you are trying to hard. Men run away if they see desperation, they like to be the hunt... (read in full...)

Hes alot more experienced than me, how do I get confidence!!?

Q.   I'm with this guy, and he's a little.. well ALOT more experienced than me!... I'm not a virgin, but i'm also not that confident!! If anyone could give me any advice!!!! ...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi, Well this one i can help you with! I would let him know you are nervous about things and need his help to over come things - this men like, they love to feel the hero! then let him take the lead, if he goes to fast for you; let him know, he ... (read in full...)

Im extremely attracted to my girlfriend, so why do I go limp ?

Q.   My Girlfriend is extreamly atractive to me... and yet I'm worried. I can be completely in the mood, and both of us really getting into it... and then suddenly, out of nowhere, I go limp. Either durring sex or before. She say's that's not normal, and ...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi Sweetie, Worrying is the last thing you should do! it makes it worse!!! Think to yourself if you are stressed, feeling a little down - worrying about things is so typical of this problem. if this is the case try the following: try taking the heat ... (read in full...)

At 17 we had sex but didnt date, 6 years on he tells me he loves me, and wants me to have his baby!!???

Q.   What should I do? I've been friends with this guy since elementary school. When we were 17 we started having sex, but we've never dated. This went on for about 3 years and then he moved away. It has now been 6 years and he is moving back here. He ...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi, Well you are stuck arnt you! lets disect this a minute - he says he hasnt had sex for 6 years because he has been waiting for you, then says he has a girlfriend; he loves you but he doesnt know if his girlfriend will be moving back with him; he ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 hes 18 maybe 22, we met online, we have intimate feelings, is this right or am I being played ?

Q.   I'm a 15 year old girl and a couple months ago i met an 18 year old guy (suspected to be 22) online. I've met him in person, talk to him all the time, we meet to chat online at specific times (because he lives very far away from me), i do admit i ...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi 'A female' Being a young woman you are showing signs of starting to use the gift of womanly instinct bestowed on us, now is the time to trust it, being torn by what you feel and think will obviously confuse you, it does most of us! that wont chan... (read in full...)

He smelt girly, and is suddenly spraying deodarant on his shirt.... is he cheating ?

Q.   suspicious man my husband came home this morning from work and i noticed that his shirt and chest smelled girly and i asked him "why he smells like that?" he said that he doesn't smell anything and that it's probaly his sweat. and i told him th...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi 'a Female' From reading your letter i can hear your worries,the key lies in his original reply "its probably his sweat" this is probably why he sprayed his shirt the next morning with deodorant, there maybe two reasons for this, one that he does... (read in full...)

My partner has secretly been texting a 16 yr old, but he says its because she in a mess and needs help!!!!

Q.   I just found out that my partner of 4 years has secretly been texting a 16 year old girl, behind my back and I'm totally heartbroken, hes 36! all the trust has gone and I dont feel like I know him anymore and I dont know what to do! Backgroun...

A.   2 May 2007: Hi Ms anonymously, I am so sorry to hear of your troubles, you sound very much in love with your man and lets make this clear he is still your man, now lets see if we can save this relationship. He is obviously in love with you, as he wants to... (read in full...)

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