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writes:i have a boyfriend who is 16 and im 15. i'm really happy with him but i haven't told mum and dad about him, i have been spending heaps of time with him and mum asked me if i was going out with him but i said no because i was afraid of what she would do or say.i have known him for a long time and mum has met him but i dont think she likes him. how do i tell her because she always seems different when i spend time with him. Dad and her said i'm not allowed to go to his house anymore without his mum there, but i feel like they don't trust me or him. i'm just really confussed. Reply to this Question
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reader, useless  +, writes (19 January 2007):
 well sometimes parents are just like that because they don't want to loose you and don't want anything bad happening to you or they love you too much they don't want to worry that bad things happen to you...i've done that before too, but next time they ask you another question tell them the truth so that they would trust you so that you can go to your man's house and not band you to stop going there. But don't take things too far. Take your time and enjoy life while your still young.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (18 January 2007):
 They don't trust you because you lied to them. Sit them down and tell them that you've just started having a relationship with this guy but that you plan to take it slowly and will fully respect their wishes by only going to his house when his mum is there etc. Believe me, it may sound like theyre treating you like you're five but you owe it to them and yourself to take this slowly and enjoy being young. Hope this helps.
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