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*exybabe13
writes:hi, i am asking for help. well i met this boy on facebook not too long ago, and im starting to like him. one day he said he wanted to meet me, and i asked what would he do. he said he would try to have sex with me in the family bathroom at the mall. i think hes really cute, but were one year apart, im 14 hes 15. im an honor student and the idea sounded tempting. i would like to have sex, but i know im going to regret it because im too young. should i let this boy proceed?
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reader, sexybabe13 +, writes (5 April 2011):
sexybabe13 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u for the help. ive decide not 2
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reader, Dataluke  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!I am going to repeat everything that everyone else has said for emphasis, DON'T DO IT!!!!!He is just looking for a quick shag and that is all you would ever be to him. Sex for the first time should be special, not done in a bathroom! And the really big thing here is that you are bot UNDER AGE!! He shouldn't be having sex and you should especially not. Wait until you have a boy who really cares about you.All the best, Dataluke
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): I agree with Cerberus.
Don't do it. Your'e worth more than a quick f*** in the bathroom. Respect yourself. Respect your body. Respect the act. Sex has so many consequences. People tend to forget that these days. If you want to meet him, take a friend. Or two.
Get to know him face to face. Create a relationship between you both. If you let him get so close so easily you will only hurt yourself. Sorry.... I sound like Im harping.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): I would have to say dont do it! you have only ever talked to him on facebook. even if it is something you are considering you should meet him face to face and just talk first. Also even if you decide you want to, the bathroom at the mall is an awful choice and i promise you you will regret it. I would strongly suggest you wait or you could regret it for the rest of your life there is no rush for sex and if he likes u too he will wait and respect that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Don't do it. You'll regret it forever, not only because you're too young but also because he clearly doesn't care about anything but pleasing himself. Run a mile from this guy and wait for another who truly loves and respects you, someone who deserves to be given your virginity. You'll be glad you held out in the long run, trust me! Take care :)
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Most certainly not. The chance that you MIGHT feel good about it while it is happening is not worth the possible years of misery you might face because of regret. How are you so sure he seeks more than just your body? Do not let him touch you.
I hope that helps.
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