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I'm 14, is it normal for me to be so addicted to men?

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Question - (25 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm 14 and addicted to men.

This is embarassing, but I'm 14 and I'm addicted to watching men and get extremly turned on by them (the sexy ones).

Sometimes I even see 2 sexy guys kissing on TV or something, and it feels really nice.

I just love the physique of a toned man. I'm not interested in guys my age because most are immature and I cant talk to them about philosophy or poetry, deeper things.

Do other girls get turned on by sexy guys making out or whatever?

Thanks a bunch.

:-)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007):

yeah. When I was your age I was very hormonal and I was very curious and interested in men and sex and just that kind of stuff. I am 26 and i still am! lol.

It's normal, ok? That is part of your age. What feels weird about it for you probably is that only a few years ago your body changed from being a kid (thinking boys have cooties) to being an adult and being sexually attracted to them now. I guess it's called puberty and it is one of many life cycles you are going to go through in your lifetime. And it is probably the most difficult one to go through because it's such a radical change from your "baby" days. And most kids feel really weird about it. So that's normal too!

If you want to learn more about how normal you are for feeling this way there are many books about it that you can read to see that you are not alone, in fact you are in the majority of kids your age feeling this way. Check out 'reviving ophelia' or just pick up a book about sex and puberty. Good luck. And don't feel self conscious. Embrace it and enjoy it cause you are NOT weird.

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A female reader, Reina United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

Well, I don't get turned on by watching guys makeout, but that's me. But I do get turned on when I see hot celebs kicking ass in action movies! There's nothing wrong with getting excited over two cute men kissing though... or just men in general. You are 14 and when I was 14 I was in to similar things. I even liked to watch naked men on tv!! Lol. Even though it's normal for you to become "aroused" or "excited" by seeing the opposite sex, don't go trying to act out your impulses on other young men. Ha, you're too young for that!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (25 August 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntHi there, sweetness!

Let me start off by saying that I too, love watching me some sexy men making out. What is better than Johnny Depp and Orlando Bloom? Johnny Depp and Orlando making out (I wish!! *sigh*)!

There's nothing wrong with you, sweetness. I think you're just at that age when you're starting to really notice men in a sexual way. And it's no wonder that you're not attracted to guys your age - men take longer to mature than women. Don't worry... they'll come along eventually.

There's nothing wrong with starting to get sexually excited about guys. You're at the perfect age... just make sure you don't act on it too much- because that's when trouble starts.

Have fun watching sweetness! Enjoy being a woman!

xxIndia

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