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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello there! Off-limits man pursues off-limits woman. Woman flirts with man. Man asks out woman. Woman rejects man. Woman then flirts with other guys and totally ignores man. Man pursues further. Woman (ego now suitably pumped) then flirts even more with other guys and continues to ignore him. Man stops pursuing to try and draw her in again i.e. makes himself scarce and pursues other interests. Woman continues to flirt with other men and blatantly ignore him. Cue department re-shuffle. They end up in the same department/open plan area. Woman now alone in one corner. Man now surrounded (by sheer good fortune!) by a number of beautiful women! Man's desk is such that he is facing away from the woman in question - so she can see exactly what is going on - but only from a distance. If man then proceeds to flirt with these beautiful women and this makes her jealous then does this categorically mean that she is in denial and does actually fancy him? If so, then do you think they will be lovers by the time of the Xmas party? (LOL!) That's right - I'm in my own deluded little fantasy world! So, shall I play the jealousy card right back at her? It's all I have now. Only way to be sure. I've been suffering for months... Any other suggestions? Am I deluded? I'm certainly besotted with her. We haven't spoken since June. Thanks and have a nice day!
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 Haha well you have a clear 2 months atleast yet to play before the xmas party?
If she gets jealous then yes, I expect she's keen, but whats with all the games? Ever wonder if she's gonna turn out to be a high maintanance girlfriend? Never a dull moment then though I guess! Or you could just be 'normal' and say 'stop fart arsing about, do you wanna date or shall I choose one of these other gorgeous women on offer?' lol
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