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writes:It is a huge turn-on to see my wife in tight clothes - leggings and a tight t-shirt, or skinny jeans and I'm turned on more than if she were wearing lingere. I feel like it's so strange though, that I hint around it but have never come out and told her exactly how I feel. For example I'll tell her when I think she looks sexy, but I feel like I'm holding back by having never told her that it turns me on more than she knows. I'm afraid she's going to think it's totally deviant on my part. What do you think? How to approach?
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (15 January 2012):
 No, that's not deviant at all. I love tight clothes and I wish more women, who are in shape, would opt for it as well. Tight clothing looks the best and there is nothing wrong with you to want your girlfriend to wear more of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): she won't think that's deviant at all i would be flattered if my husband told me that he got turned on by me wearing tight clothes
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 January 2012):
 She won't think that. Maybe she'll be flattered. But at any rate be honest with her. If you'd like her in tight jeans, tell her what you like. Most of us don't have a clue because men all have different turn ons and just once we'd like to know if we're hitting them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2012): "I'm holding back by having never told her that it turns me on more than she knows. I'm afraid she's going to think it's totally deviant on my part. What do you think? How to approach?"
As a guy I can't see any problem in telling your wife something about het that turns you on more than she knows. Nothing deviant about responding to an attractive woman waering flattering outfits, especially when you're married to her. She should be thrilled and delighted and just as turned on as you. From my POV the only problem would be if you were turned on by seeing other women in tight clothes.
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