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If I leave him alone, will he miss me and come back, or will it cause more damage?

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Question - (22 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I would love opinions from everyone but especially want a male point of view. My partner of 2 years left me a few weeks ago to sort through some issues he has. If i leave him alone will he miss me and come back? Will contacting him really cause more damage?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

I agree. Let him have the time and space. You say you were on good terms, so my guess is that the problems he needs to work out are not related to the relationship, but private. It may be about job or family matters. Something he just hasn't felt like talking with you about, yet.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2007):

kenny agony auntHe says he has got to go away to sort out some issues he has, so let him do this and give him the space he needs to do so. I think he will think alot more of you if you don't call him, i think if you go calling him every 5 minutes leaving messages ect he will get annoyed. I know its hard, and you feel you need to know where you stand, but as i say the best advice i can give is to give the space and maybe call him, or email him in a couple of weeks.

Take care & good luck x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2007):

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I should have phrased it better. We didnt part on bad terms. He just needs time.

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