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writes: Hello,I am slighly baffled here. I did the silly thing of getting drunk and sleeping with a guy, woke up in the morning and thought to myself 'oh no what have I done'!However he is quite lovely and was very nice to me in the morning when I woke up in his bed. He made me breakfast and we spent all morning chatting, he took me home at lunchtime. He did not have his phone on him so gave me his number. I left it a couple of days then text him to ask if he would like to meet up, so when it was convenient for us both - I had quite a few plans the weeeks following but we kept in touch and his texts were very sweet saying he would love to see me. We arranged a Saturday night and he took me out for a few drinks and then a nice dinner, he paid. We went back to his to watch a film and ended up in bed again. I didn't stay I asked him to drop me home.We kept in touch and often met up for drinks the weeks following our date. We live in the same town which is quite small so often bump into one another, even when we have not arranged to meet. There was one occasion when he was disappointed that I was staying with a friend as I could not go back to his. Things were going quite well and we kept trying to arrnage another dinner date but I was quite busy. He went away abroad for two weeks to visit one of his parents who he has not seen for months. Valentines day was while he was away and when he returned I got no valentines message, but he said ' must see you soon'. Then, nothing!! he has not contacted me for weeks! We even bumped into each other about a week ago. I was with a guy who is a very good friend and he didn't seem to like this. He did speak to me and we had a chat about what we had been up to that night etc, but I didn't want to ask why he hadn't contacted me. When I bump into him again do you think I should ask him why he really wanted to see me and why he has backed off?? I would just like to know that's all if there is still anything between us. Then I will not be embarassed if I bump into him when I am on another date! I am 26, he is 24. I would say we are both very attractive and also both like attention.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2007): I think that you should ask him straight out how he feels about you.Maybe send him a text or when you next bump into him ask. There is nothing worse than not knowing and even if he does not want to take things any further you can at least move on. I think that the only reason you have not asked him before is because you like him more than you want to admit to yourself! If this is right then you must go ahead and ask him and stop being stuck in this limbo, good luck.
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