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If I ask, will he?

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Question - (8 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 June 2008)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

We're attracted to each other, we've flirted but I think he wants me to make the first move. If I tell him I want to have sex with him, will he turn me down?

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A male reader, jay12toes United States +, writes (8 June 2008):

jay12toes agony auntthat depends, are you dateing or just flirting because you really should go on a few dates befor you bring him home. but most men dont turn down sex.... which is kinda sad sometimes but nevermind. so theres a good chance that he will want to.

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A female reader, 19agegap United States +, writes (8 June 2008):

if you can handle it, go ahead. But be mentally prepared that he won't want a relationship with u regardless, manage your expectations

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008):

okay, so you are attracted to each other and have been flirting,but I do not suggest you tell him straight that you want sex.....This guy might grab you and do it, or most likely put on his running shoes so fast....

I suggest you use some diplomacy, lead him to it discreetly, maybe arrange for a romantic dinner out or invite him for a dinner at your place....get the setting right and even then, do not rush it, you don't want to scare the guy.....Trust me men can get scared to if they feel chased.

Make physical contact, a little hug, but take it easy....don't blow this man away!

Good luck and enjoy!

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