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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Well its sumwat about luv and friendship. I met a person through net chatting and we were seeing each other and mostly into each other and had a great time 2gethr. He proposed to me too and I was taking my time to know him though I was in love. At this moment some problems came forth between us and he decided to stay back. Although i said i loved him after this, he said he doesn't want to hurt me. Still we were doing gud but i was hurt and he stood beside me as a friend. i used 2 get a little jealous when he used to date with other girls and never tried to hide my jealousy from him.He repeatedly askd me to stay away from him as i will be hurt, i tried to know why he ws behaving like this and he shared many thngs that he has not said before.After 1 or 2 months he started avoiding me totally and started behaving very rudely, mockingly and never answered any of my questions or clarified anything of such behaviour. He has found another girl, i have cum to know that. I tried to solve it but he was not interested and has recently cut all contct.I askd him many ways 4 the reason but he is never bothered 2 answer. i luv him thats true and its difficult to hide it from him. At the same time at any cost i want 2 keep our freindship, how is it possible? even its slowing down the pace of my life, i am seeing failure in my career for a long time and can't concentrate on my work, if i need to move on. how can i do that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthnx christie1 4 ur response..bt i nevr preventd him frm dating ny1 aftr he said he wnt 2 stay bck, i ws sumwat jealous nd i hve acceptd evrythng nd clarified most thng frm my part nyway.he can't stnd whenevr he found i hve feelings 4 him or getting emotionl 4 nythng concrnd abut dt.evn i said him its perfct if he dint hve ny feelng bt he wnted me too 2 cum out of dt.he finds evrythng wll b prfct both frm his nd my part if v dnt see each othr or mke ny cntct 2 each othr. shud i stay bck??...evn i m trying 2 do so, so dat he cn tke sum tym nd undrstnd thngs by his own way but thngs hve gone wrsr by doing so...is it possible dat we wll b frnds again?
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reader, christie1  +, writes (1 March 2011):
you must never let this control your life and your work.
if he doesnt want to date anymore and may be possibly intreasted in someone else you should tell him how you feel this may change things and if not you have been trueful and say that you want to be friends but dont force this take a step back and be a good friend without annyoing him let him no you care about him and that you are there to talk and you accept what has happend between you.
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