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If he doesn't love me why wouldn't he let go?

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Question - (30 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2010)
A female Jordan age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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I've been with a guy for almost a year now

i do love him but he said it once and never said it again

i used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wanted

it is impossible to stay together, he's younger than i am (2 years)

and we live in tow different countries

we both know it will never last

every time i go to his country i try to end things with him bcoz he doesn't love me and we will be apart soon

he doesn't agree and always says .. u have a special place in my heart and i can't let go

the last time i asked him to just let me go he agreed but a couple of days later he calls and begs me to take him back

he is a very nice guy never lied or cheated on me

he never even spoke loud to me

i know we have to leave each other sooner or later i always say the sooner the better so i can forget about and get on with my life

but why won't he let go of me now ?

and any advice on how to do it without hurting him?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010):

i don't think that there is easy way to leave someone.

but you need to talk to him, tell him how you feel, and tell he need to decide either he loves you or you should leave each other.

regarding the age, the age doesn't matter, the important thing is that you love each other (that of course in case he loves you back)

may be he just won't let you go because of sex, in that case you need to leave him.

best luck

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