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writes:If a guy writes that he is in love with you on his status message on facebook, do you think he really means it?.He has told me that in person too. Would he only want everyone on his facebook page to see it if he really meant it?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 If he really means it he wouldn't have a need to post it on facebook, unless he is 13-16 years old. Any adult writing they are in love on facebook is just seeking attention, in my opinion. I wouldn't take it seriously. It can be cute, but it isn't serious. Never take facebook serious. Only take seriously what he tells you face to face and how he treats you! Action speaks louder than words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2012): Actions always speak louder than words
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2012): No, OP just saying something never makes it true. The proof of the pudding is in the eating. If he loves he has to show it and if you're unsure whether he does or not then he hasn't proven to you yet that he does. Simple as that.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 Saying stuff is all fine and well but he needs to show it. I've never done anything like that and personally it's not something I would do.
I'm very much in love with my partner and try to show her at all times through my actions. I don't need facebook or any other means to prove it.
He may be totally genuine and innocent but on the other hand it may be a way to make him feel like he has done something really great, for his own ego.
Only you can know if he really loves you.
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reader, Deagan  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 If he's saying it, and posting it on facebook, I think we are all inclined to think that yes, he is in love with you.
Now here's where we determine if he means it. Other than saying it, how does he SHOW that he loves you? Does he listen to you? Is he patient with you? Is he happy to see you? Does he like to take you on dates? Does he consider your feelings in a situation? Does he ask for your opinion?
The list can go on really, but as long as he's showing that he loves you as well as saying it, then the answer to your question is yes.
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