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writes:I have recently began seeing this girl at different functions at my out of school activities. Being at an all boy school, I do not get as much girl interaction, but when ever I see her at events, I just gawk over her beauty. I know that I am not as attractive as some of the other guys that she is talking to, but I know that I can be at the very least a very good friend and someone to talk to. I really would like to just go up and talk to her but I do not know how, nor can I work up the courage to say hello. I am not stalking her but rather notice her at my school's hockey games. I hope that someone can help me in trying to meet what I perceive as a wonderful person. Thanks
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 Time will pass by and regret is not a nice thing to live with! Saying hi would be a good start so I guess if you can't say it to her then it's the first hurdle you'll have to jump.Maybe practice just saying hi to other girls you don't have crushes on, wherever they may be. If you're out at the mall, supermarket or gym. Just make eye contact and say hi, it's a nice gesture and usually you'll get a hi back.I guess if you work up to it then say it to the girl you like, it would make it easier. Then you can just introduce yourself and take it from there.Practicing does make things easier in whatever you are doing so it's good to get into the habit.
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (8 February 2012):
 JUST GO TALK TO HER...that's an order!!! It's not about how good looking a guy is but more how you make her feel, so just walk up to her and say "Hi" and go on from there you'll be surprised how easy it is when you actually just walk up to her, and stop saying stuff to the effect that you would at the very least just want to be her good friend while in reality you want more, don't fear rejection, embrace it, she could equally just be waiting for the guy to approach her and be so happy that you had the balls to do it. If you get rejected so what? At the very least you will learn something from your approach and at best get her out of the way pushing you that much closer to finding the woman of your dreams. Just don't let fear paralyze you even if you go up to her and make a fool of your-self as it's part of the learning process. So just suck it up and take that first step otherwise always hate yourself for doing nothing (I have!). Do something..
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