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I'd like to go out with him but I'm not sure what he thinks of me

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Question - (10 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I'm confused over this guy . I like him , and would like to go out with him ,but i'm not sure what he thinks of me. I first saw him in a show at a local theatre group , as my grandmother was in the same show ( she isn't a member of the group now though ) . After i saw him in the show , i contacted him on facebook ( i had seen his name in the program for the show ) . We had a chat about the show and had general conversation for a few months , then i saw him in another show. We met properly then before the show started . He is in another show next month ( it has now been a few months since i last saw him , next month , i will have known him a year , and he used to ask me to join the group a lot , as he knows i like acting too .I havent joined yet though . And he also says quite a lot that he wants me to go and watch him again next month ( although sometimes he has said that he wants my grandmother to go to ) . He puts a few kisses on his messages on facebook , and he has joined some groups that i have on facebook , such as groups about films , although it could just be a coincidence that we like the same films , although he joined the groups after i did . He sometimes comments on my page when he agrees with something i have written on my status too .

He also gave me a copy of the show i saw him in last year ( that my grandmother was also in ) as i said i'd be interested in having a copy .

Yesterday , he had added this application on facebook called Lover of the day , and it said my name on it , as it was the first name that came up . You just add the application , then a name comes up . He posted the result onto his wall , which is optional , so he didn't have to . If you've seen applications on facebook , you'll know what i mean . I put a comment underneath saying " really ? " . He sent me a private message saying " hi how are you ? it's been a while . yeah it was just a silly application that i added and your name was the first one that came up . see you at the show speak soon xxx " . I'm not sure if he might have been embarrassed that i'd seen it , or if he isn't interested in that way ?. I sent him a message saying " lol it's ok i dont mind that my name came up on that application . do you know what date the show is on yet ?. is anyone allowed to watch the rehearsals ? my grandmother said that some people watched the rehearsals at the show you did last year lol speak soon xxx " . he hasnt responded yet becasue it hasnt been that long since i sent it.

And once , quite a while ago , he said he had been to benidorm with a friend , and he told me there were a lot of attractive girls there and he wanted to go back again because his friend liked them .

What do you think ?.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010):

He just likes you as a friend and that's all, no romantic interest or attraction there.

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