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writes:Im 6 months pregnant me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now when i first got pregnant he didnt want the baby at all but he said that he wouldnt leave us.but as the months gone by hes very distance i call he doesnt answer the phone hes always saying hes tired he was sleeping i wont hear from him all night he dont tell me he loves me anymore i get nothing i barely see him we are now seperated because he also wont tell his family he gonna be 25 years old im 21 and we both finished highschool i came out of college and was unable to keep my job because of bedrest im having to twin boys n i just wanted them to kno about my babys i neva met the mom n dad because they live in haiti n berlin but the rest of the familys down here...i kno somethings wrong he can be scared but i think hes hiding something im just so hurt dont kno what to do.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Zanie +, writes (27 May 2010):
 This guy is checking out, honey. He wasn't ready for the reprecussions and now he's moving on.
However, you have rights. He needs to support you monetary atleast. You need to get a lawyer. Also, just because he feels this way doesn't necessarily mean his family does. They may want to know there grandchildren etc. Do you know how to get in touch with them? Maybe call or send a letter? However, be prepared they may treat you as he did and if they do...then move on. You did them a great courtesy just by telling them.
In the end, you have to worry about you and your babies. Have your family around you and get some support. Definitely get legal advice and get financial support as well. Good luck to you. Hope it all turns out for the best.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 May 2010):
I think you need to prepare yourself for the fact that you are going to be a single mum. He's not ready to be a father, and is not coping with the idea. He is legally responsible though, so at some point you'll need to talk to him or get a lawyer.
In the meantime, surround yourself with friends and family and get all the support you can. Lots of luck to you.
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reader, s4ndy +, writes (27 May 2010):
Hi there what does your family say about all of this. If I was your Mum babes Id say "leave him". He is treating you badly and you know it, you are worthy of more than this. He says he will stick around just because you are pregnant, I think that says what type of rat he is! Ditch him, even though it may be hard for you, and move on and start being happy because he is pulling you down with his selfishness. I hope this helps a little, let me know how you get on. Good luck xx
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