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*wilight#1
writes:Hey Dear cupiders! I'm going to try to make this as short as possible. I like/love (still deciding) this guy in college. We talked on aim. He told me he was having issues with a girl that he liked. But she didn't like him at the time. He said that he was getting use to distancing himself away from her/but until recently she wants to be with him. He said that he didn't feel the same way about her. However end up going out with her any way. I was a little heartbroken... I thought we hit it off... but its all in my head of course...A day ago... I was sitting awaiting a one act to begin in my college and his girlfriend sits right behind me. She started to talk to his roommate about how "he" isn't affectionate/ very closed off, how "he" is always busy, how its going to take 6 months for him to say "I love You".... I feel bad that I heard this but I was fairly interested... I mean would you? Plus I can't stop my ears from hearing and in all honesty she shouldn't be talking about her problems if she doesn't want anyone to over hear it. ... so yea..They don't seem so affectionate when they are around each other... What do you think? I would have gave up a long time ago but there is something about this guy that I can't let go of. Something is telling me to not let go... Idk why...
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reader, Neeraj060  +, writes (10 December 2008):
 If your hear and mind are playing games with you then listen to your mind don't get carried away.
Firstly analize the situation it would be very possibel that you like him but that may not be the case vice vera.
Let your male friend know that you will be there for him no matter what the situation turn's out for him.Tell him that if he is not comfortable to be with some one than you are always there and you would be there for him no matter what.
Open your heart a little give him a hint or so that he tries to understand that there is someone else(u) that wants and love/likes him.
As far your confusion between like/love goes... this looks more like you love him other wise if you just would have been friends you would has told him what happedned back in the colleage but you resisted just so that he doesn't get hurt.....
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reader, inconnue +, writes (10 December 2008):
Me to you...
1.I will try to see what is wrong with the guys that make the other girl talk about him that way.
2. see/check if it's worth it
3. see if he did care about me when he asked me out
4.figure out his reputation
5. based on the way you guys know each other, did he mention what he likes in girl or not...if so, change your attitude to win him back
6. what is your current relationship with the guy...just friend, no friendship or communication, best friend?
that can affect his current opinion of view
7. Always be the best, outgoing, nice, social...all thos qualities that atracted him to you in the first place to burn that flame
8. Be on your guard because if he comes back...he will be a bit different after feeling the rejection from the other girl
9. Be aware you might not get him back completely for yourself...might be trapped between feeling...be ready and prepared to deal with that
10.Enjoy your college life, maybe it was just one of those sparks that can never grow, you might find a better guy later but because you stuck with this one, that you donn't see other possibilities for your happiness
Hope this will help...
Inconnue
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