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*irl8867
writes:Dear Cupid, I did something very bad.. I went through my boyfriend's phone. Texts, photos, and everything.. Well, that was a big mistake. He talks to other girls... And It bothers me... I have a lot of insecurity problems and I hate myself.. He betrayed my trust in the past by doing something then hiding it.. and I guess that doesn't help either. I mean, I SHOULN'T be upset. I talk to other guys.. but I don't do anything bad. And I don't trust him enough. I want to lear how to regain trust in him. Please, Please, PLEASE help me.. Thank you in advance.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Were the texts, photos, anything incriminating to point to cheating?? If they were then I would dump, you can't trust a liar, cheater. It's not possible.
Now if the texts, photos were clean then you need to stop going thru his things. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 December 2011):
 I agree with the other posters. If he once betrayed your trust and is continuing to be suspicious, I don't see how you can ever trust him again.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 December 2011):
 if he did something once before to betray your trust I can promise you that it's probable you will NEVER trust him again....
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reader, hannabriggs +, writes (10 December 2011):
well honestly, if you caught him doing it before, and hes still doing it.. im sorry but he cant be trusted. dont be a fool and sit there and be played, you need to find somebody who you can trust and who will respect you enough not to betray your trust..
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