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writes:I'm trying to move on, but it's just too hard and it still hurts. She is with her bf for almost 5.5 years, but it was hard for her. She went through a lot of emotional hurt, cried and is with a possessive guy. I fell for her 3 years ago, and I didn't know she was in a rocky relationship. For a year, she started to have feelings for me and told she likes me. She shared all her personal problems and felt happy talking to me. I made her handmade gifts and cards for her birthdays to make her special. She loved those gifts. Suddenly, she didn't want to talk to me anymore because she wanted to be with the same bf who kept hurting her emotionally. She keeps forgiving and going back to him because she thinks he might change. 6 months she last talked to me. She threw me away from her life, leaving me hurt, without understanding how much I cared. Will she realize my love some day?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): If she wants to be with him, that's her personal choice. I was with a jerk once. He two timed me but I chose to stay with him and blew a nice guy away because I thought the nice guy was being too clingy and attached to me. Maybe she feels this way towards you because she's confused about what to do? Whatever she does is a personal choice. Sure, she tells you her problems in the past but it doesn't mean she always will. I suggest you move on and get over her. It's better for everyone that way as al I see in a weave of emotional struggle and pains between she, you and her bf.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (16 March 2011):
Just like she's wrong in staying with that jerk. You are wrong in pursuing this girl who doesn't do what it takes to be better. I don't blame you for what you did so far. You gave it a try and that's ok.
"Will she realize my love some day?"
Who cares and what's the point? She will still be attached to the guy who makes her life a hell. She needs to get professional help and you need to move on. If you can't walk away from this girl you need to get a therapist too.
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