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*rin90
writes:Hi,Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year. We recently spent Valetines Day together where he went all out to celebrate, making reservations at a wonderful restaurant, romantic picnic in the day and wonderful gifts. Hes always been a very caring and upfront man. He knows ive been through many bad relationships and he always makes a stance to point out that hes a good guy whos faithful and trust worthy and that its important for me to trust him more. We're long distance because he is in the military, but we see each other often by travelling to see each other. We used to email, phone, skype and facebook each other every other day (3 days max). But the last time i spoke to him, it was March 2nd.He hasnt been on skype or facebook since, some of his mutual friends who also live on base still come online but im afraid to ask them if they've seen him.At first i thourght he might be blowing me off (which is strange because i thourght things were good last time i saw him, besides if hes met someone of something i really think he'd be the type of guy to tell me as he's usually very upfront and honest), Our last conversation was very short, and he said he was in a bad mood, he had only 1 word awnsers, but he said he loved me and missed me very much.Now im going back and forth, thinking has he met someone else or scared he might be hurt in hospital, or something terrible may of happened. What should i think? what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): I agree with the other 2, try and contact him. I hope he's ok. I'll pray for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): Why not try send him a facebook message asking what's going on with him and expressing concern. Simply keeping quiet and having anxiety attacks over the great unknown is far from healthy and not fair on you. If he does not respond to that then you can tentatively ask one of the friends and then take it from there.
Best of luck, hope everything works out as it should.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Call him if he answers tell him you have been worried sick about him. If you can't reach him and get no return phone call. Ask one of his friends online if he is ok, that you are worried about him. And see what they say.
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