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I want what me and him have to last but I can't go on like this!

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Question - (5 June 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok.. So I'm talking to this new guy who will go by Josh, and I mean he's really nice and sweet and everything.. But he seems over-mushy (babe you're so cute,I miss you,etc.) And at first I loved the attention, but now it just seems fake and the words have lost their value.

I want what me and him have to last but I can't go on like this! Please help!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

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Hey people, thanks for the advice. I ended up just telling him flat out that it wasn't working for me..

And it wasn't for him either, which made me feel so much better, I didn't wanna hurt him.

Thanks again!

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A female reader, Star_07 United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

Star_07 agony auntHow long have you been dating this guy?

In a new relationship, a lot times there is this kind of talk "I miss you. No, I miss you more. No, I miss you even more!" And at first its cute and you are all in love but then the real stuff comes along and you would like to talk about something serious other than being cutesy.

If he isn't the right guy for you, then move on. If you want this to last, then why do you want him to stop calling you baby, honey, sweety?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (5 June 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntIf you are not happy then move on. Why stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy or dissatisfied? Just because he's a nice guy doesn't mean he's the right guy.

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