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writes:I am another husband that would love to watch my wife having sex with another man. We have talked about this for the past year and I want to take it to the next step. She loves to talk about doing this while we are having sex and says she wants to do it, and we do make comments about it at other times also. I think she is ready to try something, but how do I know for shure that she is ready to try this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2010): Yeah pal the fact there is even a RISK involved of harming your current relationship, Id just stay away from this and keep it in fantasy land.
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93  +, writes (8 December 2010):
well i wouldnt advise that you do it as it will proberly break you up...
but if she says she is ready and you both really want to do it, then go for it i guess...
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 December 2010):
 I guess call her bluff. This sounds like the start of something negative though so, I'd not recommend this go any further than fantasy talk. It probably won't end well.no matter how "secure" a couple is in their marraige allowing a third person into the relationship is not a good thing. Think this over some more.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (6 December 2010):
 That's something only your wife can answer, you know. It's always possible that she's only seen it as excited as long as it was a fantasy. Besides, it's generally not a good idea...
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reader, MsVick +, writes (5 December 2010):
 Sounds like she is, find someone and talk it all out and have fun.
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (5 December 2010):
 It's one thing to fantasize about this while you are having sex with your wife, but it's another thing to act on it. There are so many ways this could go wrong and end up ruining your marriage. I am curious... How long have you been married? And do you have children?
Would this be a one-time deal? If so, what if your wife decides she wants to continue having sex with this man when you aren't around? Women are emotional beings... What if she falls in love with this man? These are all very real possibilities.
How will you go about choosing this other man? I do not recommend asking a friend... or anybody who lives in your area.
I suggest you keep this a fantasy because there are too many ways this could go wrong. Good luck!
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